my wife is not cheating. she is just "being." she is just living for today, worried about the kids, her career, the finances, her woman issues (her periods are coming quicker and staying longer).
i have just been "being" too. i have been just completely platonic with her: no massages, no touching, no words of desire and love, no discussion about our horrible night of sex; just plain old small talk while doing our everyday chores. she doesn't seem to mind. she hasn't said anything about anything. we go to bed on our separate parts of our king size bed separated by her pillows,i say goodnight and go to sleep.
that's that. the test really comes this friday night: we have a wedding to go to. it's a young girl from her job. all of her friends from work are going to be there, and this is when she is not only going to look really good and sexy, but when she is going to act all sexy and lovey-dovey in front of everybody, dancing the night away only to go home to sleep, because she's too tired and no longer "in the mood" for anything.
this is her way. she will be hanging all over me, calling me "honey" this, and "honey" that in front of everybody, holding me and touching me, and dancing close and maybe even grinding me, only to go home and go to sleep.
meanwhile, i will be aroused from the moment i see her in her dress and heels, becoming more frustrated than ever knowing that i shouldn't fall prey to her "seduction" because it's only going to lead to a "devatastating" let down when we get into the car and get home.
