Dear mish, I've been reading along but not feeling so much I can give any valuable advice. Some things when I read them sound so predictable, not necessarily bad, just predictable.
Instead of making assumptions, etc etc everytime something happens, face your fears and talk straight to him AFTER you have decided what would be acceptable or not for you. Just like others have already said. He has the right to choose to be a liar and a bastard, YOU have the right to choose NOT to live with a lying bastard, you cant change him, but you can decide who you want to be by your side in your life and how you want to be treated. I agree with OT. You are NOT a victim. YOU make choices. Make choices you can live with and be happy by. Do not sell yourself out. Not after all the things you've been through. Stick to yourself and if see what he does. Speak out and be clear. xxx K
