No i do not believe the papers themselves provide closure.
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Does knowing that I probably won't see him again make things better?
Do you know this for sure? I mean seriously, you can't...that is unless you have a crystal ball and if you do..hey can you let me know what is going to happen in my sitch. I am not trying to offend you girl..I'm not really. I just want you to not think in absolute terms. The only absolute term that you need to think of is..."What does Lola want - what is lola willing to accept".
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I hate these low moments.
I know...I know...I've had my share of these the past week. I have to tell you it is tough..Know what...in time they will become more of a memory...you will heal Lola if YOU WANT TO.
Don't rush to go thru the pain...don't. You need to feel it so that you can propel yourself to make the changes in YOU that you know you need to make. Don't rush...don't rush...feel it..
In time, as your healing comes...the pain will cease...Personally, I believe that you will always have some small hurt - it will remind you to do better to be better and to live your life..
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
