Irish, others, what those before us are telling us, is there is nothing we can do.
And it does take a little bit, seriously you learn something new everyday and have an aha moment.
But the key is really just make it through the day, try not to make yourself too nuts.
I'm guilty of that, going man she said this and that now this.
Just do whatever you have to do at first, leave him alone, with your goal being see the stars and say "well I made it through the day."
Don't look for a crystal ball, man I pray like all of us, we heal, they heal, our family heals, but who the heck knows.
I read an article earlier today, I googled, falling back in love again with divorced spouse or something like that.
Anyway, the woman who wrote the article, it was 2 yrs of hell, but the moment she left him alone, took all he could give, he came home.
Now I wish us men had the same luck, but I know of time after time, the men do peek back out.
I have a realtor, her husband MLC, 2 yrs after divorce, here he comes asking her out.
My neighbor, he was married 25 yrs to his wife, divorce final for 3 and half years, he quits sending her xmas and bday cards, on Monday he gets a letter, "she's sorry and misses him, doesn't know what she was doing, would he consider giving it another go."
I'm glad the neighbor said something, I got him on this sight, heck he might be on here tonite.
Anyway, it hit me, get out of the way, if it's meant to be, it will be.
