Yeah, I'm wearing my ring, too. She took hers off a couple months back. But I'm married til the paper says I'm not. Just me.
My family is pretty happy cause they've seen D and I more often in the last two months thatn the previous year. And that's good for all of us.
I'm not looking per se either. But I think I'll keep my eyes open more.
Thursday W is coming over after I exposed them to work and OM's parents and tracked down his wife.
They are dommed so I'm sure I'm going to get 10% of the truth but enough for her to say "she's done"
I think she'll be shocked when I agree; and tell her I am in the process of selecting some mediators and finalizing my Separation Agreement.
She'll be looking to push some buttons but I disconnected them all.
Could be a very interesting day. I have two days to relax; prepare and then I get to take D for a week with my family on a lake.
I haven;t seen remorse or anything but I doubt her A will make it to Christmas. It's a stupid, childish fling. Why would a 23 YO Man/boy want to be with a 29 YO single mom? And vice-versa? Basic ego-feeding jollies. Short shelf life.
And I'll be immersed in my new one by then. Won't hear the tree fall in the forest. I'll be on the beach.
Just work on you. That's the best time investment you can make.
