It does sound like W has a mental block to sex....does she read novels with sex scenes??? Sandra Brown is a good author, not smut novels, but good novels with GREAT love scenes.
Maybe buy her a novel?
Thanks for the bullet idea too Sox.
Well our ST did have her reading romance novels (bodice rippers) to help get her juices flowing so to speak. W thought they were totally ridiculous. I think she even got several Sandra Brown ones. She did read them though and to her credit things did improve somewhat for us from that "exercise".
We were somewhat matched early in our marriage then we went in totally opposite directions. The more I wanted it the less she did. The less she wanted it the more it became an obsession for me... it became a vicious cycle for us.
