Thanks for advice,
I do have one if needed, but it's expensive and we both agreed since we didn't have a lot. Just basically the house to settle and cause she makes more than me I would have to take spousal support from her till I finish my degree and get on my feet, and a few minor details to workout. (I hate it, but I helped her when she went to school, and now she wants a D too add to this mess) Oh well.

Even my lawyer said mediation would be the way to go for us. That was the first thing I did in Feb this year!! Thanks for advice Hope