ICK!!! That would totally ruin the flowers for me. And they are the first flowers I have gotten from anybody in 3 1/2 years, at least.
However I think you guys may be right. If you are an FB friend look at my status, only ONE guy has commented on my flower post and it was married fb creeper, Dennis. Very unusual. Ick. Makes me nauseous. Do I keep the flowers?
If it is him, wtf. I did not encourage his advance in any way. I will not call or email him, ever. It's not like we are carrying on some ea for weeks and then I could see flowers. Dude, it was one phone call for 15 minutes and I asked about his wife and child. I really hope it wasn't him...but it probably was.
Yucky yuck yuck. On a hunch I checked my hotmail. I never use it I use my work email, so when I check there are always 150 messages from stores like Bath/Body bc I use that email for all my junk stuff...
Anyway that is my email listed on fb. And guess what I had a message there from fbdennis-gross guy. Sending me his cell number and home phone number (! Home phone?!)...and he closed by saying hope I had a good start to my week...
Barf. I was so excited to get flowers, too...
I just deleted the email. Hell no I don't want his phone numbers!
no.. you are a woman. And if it is him, getting flowers from a MARRIED man is anything but lucky.
Not emailing him or not answering his phone calls are not going to be sufficient if it is him. Creepers, stalker, trollers, prey on woman that they know will be 'nice'.
I would suggest if he has ANY more direct contact I would be direct with him & error on the side of alienating someone, who until a week or so ago, you didn't even know existed...
Put on your BGP and tell him NO MORE CONTACT. THEN hang up & don't answer, delete the emails, etc.
I sure hope it's your sister thanking you for your support & love during her rough stretch here these past couple weeks.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
I would take the notation that you got flowers off of FB too. That will only encourage him. Sorry, this guy isn't worthy of being a friend...just a scum.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
OK I don't know why but something told me to check hotmail again before I go to bed. Mind you, I really don't ever check that account, once every 2 or 3 weeks maybe...
And I found a new message from: Secret Admirer. Seriously. Someone set up a hotmail account with that as the username. Here it is
Bobbi, I am sorry to disappoint you but I am not Gary Allen. I am someone else you know. But I am glad that it did put a smile on your face today. Enjoy there will be more to come soon. :-)
Your,
Secret Admirer
My stomach is in a knot and my hands are shaking. For some reason it feels sinister to me, I feel violated. Is that natural given the circumstance??
If it is FB creeper and he sent an email earlier with his real name, why wouldn't he send this with that, too? Why be secret? Even if it is not him I am starting to be worried that someone out there is watching me. I don't like that...
Jeff!!! No way...I just went and looked. No way. My first instinct was to delete the posts and delete him. But do you think I need to keep them for 'evidence'? Of what, I'm not sure. Don't know if this qualifies as stalking yet. But I am creeped out 1000%
And they are the first flowers I have gotten from anybody in 3 1/2 years, at least. 
