Give Retrouvaille a try. It is one just one weekend, but it can make a world of difference. Check the website, www.helpourmarriage.org for locations and dates.
Is she who you thought you married? Is she who she has been lately? Yes. She is both of them. She is a complex human being who acts different ways under different circumstances. We all are. Judging her is not the answer. Take a weekend and learn how to talk to her. Then you can decide based on much more knowledge. And she can decide too. It's just 48 hours to really think about what has gone wrong and what can go right. Your family is worth that much effort.
