Yes I agree that we do need the time apart and it took me awhile but, I don’t want to peruse anymore it's just hard with the who affair thing that gets me going sometimes and believing the truth from her is hard, since she lied to me when I did confront her In JAN. (I would love to trust her, but as I know she has feelings for OM still I don’t know).
Also last time she stopped MC in Jan she cheated, wnted to make it easier for me. Started MC again after I busted Affair in Feb now she stopped going again!! Along with being in limbo about the separation agreement and D. I thought we were going to do Mediation because we don’t have too much. Now I think she is going to her lawyer. Don't know where we stand to be honest..
I do think in this short seperation apart it's helped me get back to some of the things I have lost sight of for myself such as my confidence and doing things I haven’t done for myself since before we were M. Thanks Hope
