the only complaints, at least to me, were that I am controlling and she wants her indepdance.
When she came back she told me she needed her space so I let her be. I went to counselor Tuesday and asked her if she would like to go.
I messed up Wednesday by telling her I love her etc. She went to counselor Friday. Friday night she told me no chance to work it out and if I kept trying to be sweet and tell her I love her she would file today (monday). I found this site Friday and backed off. I do not approach her unless I absolutely have to. Have not said the L word. She seems to be effected by it in that she is now approaching me, telling me good night first etc.
