My W said I was controlling too, although I didn't see any of that. I thought everything we did was done willingly. Has she told you what she thought you were controlling?
I am still fairly new here, but I see the same excuses and issues in a lot of these situations. It really makes me sick to see the same situations over and over again. It really doesn't make sense to me.......I am at a loss as to how to explain it. We can't all be bad men, right? We are just men....