Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

Well MIL called W back on what has been going on. It was not what I wanted, as W was on the road and when she called me. MIL asked her what was going on? OM and EA, money, etc. It was good as MIL was another voice. One that was not seen as someone to argue with.

W was so hurt cause I involved MIL. I told her I do anything or get anyone who would help. One who wouldnt take sides. We fought at first she said why I would say all these things to her mom. I told MIL the truth, anything I said was backed up with facts. I can show them to you. She really freaked out about the M and it may not be legal. (This was new and MIL did not know about this yet, not even W) She was hurt by what I and L found out.

She quickly dropped the rope with me. She was the one validating my feelings. Wow huh....W was comming clean on everything. She admitted to everything. Hell she almost went "text by text" what she did with OM. She admitted to the pictures, talking and meeting. But did not do anything sexual, physically, or on the phone.

Well I left with the kids on vacation. W has almost been texting and calling nonstop to talk. I even told her there are some younger women talking to me. I am at the beach, and yes been flirting. Not actively, but If another woman starts chatting, I do converse. W states she is not jealous, but keeps insisting what I talk to these women about.
Its been almost 5 days apart and I got the "I Miss you and want you home" today. She even called L to put a stay on the D papers. So this trip is doing us some good. We even had phone sex. Something we used to do quite a bit, when I used to work on the road alot a few years ago.

..oh I did leave a Just thinking of you card,3-4 sunflowers, and a bag of M&Ms(her favorite) for her. Plus I left the house spotless. She loved this greatly and told me so.

anyhow, sorry for rambling on so quick, busy with the kiddos....Looks like things are on the up and up. Just gonna take it slow.