Just found the site Friday evening and could not log in until today so I am needing some advice as to how to handle the session in the morning.
W of 17 yrs walked Sunday, came back monday said she wanted D, plannig to file in 2 weeks. Says she has not been happy for a long time. That I am controlling and she needs her independance.
Refuses to consider working on it, told me counselor told her there was no need to try. I have not seen or spoken to counselor since W met with her. I have read as many posts that I could and have backed off. I was telling her several times a day that I love her and would not give up on us but she went off said she was going to file today if I kept it up so I stopped. She wants house, that's fine, I don't want it anyway but I really don't want the divorce and do want to work on it.
So how do I handle a session that I am led to believe will be one sided?
