Standing tall for myself--forever & ever, amen.

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OK Grit, you've pulled me back in time to read Real's 7/12 post about not feeling safe with her H. Direct quote from my W. Ironically, I feel more than capable of being her protector, it's just the rules changed after I've let her control the relationship. She could give up some of that control to realize I can step up. But how do you exhibit that when she's gone?
Real, you've given me some great insight into what might be in my W's brain.