Originally Posted By: DanF
went to a local bar that serves excellent food to get a sandwich and a beer. There was this hot little blondie (yes, I’m partial to blonde’s) tending bar and waitressing ... We hit it off pretty god.


In case you are confused it can be called "tips through temptation." You are probably not the only guy leaving her a twenty under your pint glass and who has found his latest hangout.



puppy gave some great advice on this thread :

Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I always try to encourage betrayed spouses to take a good, hard, honest look at THEMSELVES, and also their spouse's pre-affair marital complaints, and use this time for some serious introspection about what GENUINELY needs to be improved in their relationship style, communication, habits, etc.


I don't think you have done this yet. This remark along with many others,

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I felt kind of good about making her mad!


tells me you still allow your wife and tempting woman to hold power over you. Know Yourself.