I am sure it is hard to see your D hurting but I think SA hit it when she said that once things have calmed down a bit, he may change his mind! He is mad at you and taking it out on her.
BTW-since you seem to have so many vivid dreams, you should consider getting a dream analyzing book! I have thought of it but I have only had like 2 dreams of H since he left that I can actually remember!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing