makes me mad that I'm going to be doing the work to make this happen (cause I'm NOT the one asking for divorce) but it will be worth the effort-
1-wake up call for W 2-time to choose cake or eating it 3-financial reality (short and long term) 4-accountability check 5-If this ain't dropping the rope, I don't know what is. 6-FIREWALL!! Protect what D and I have before she spends that on him, too.
"And, if you call now, we'll throw in some Blu-Blockers and an optional "bonk on the head for your W" so maybe she can smell the coffee"
"Hey, Jay, bring that box down here. So, W, do you want to keep the house on the golf course with your husband and daughter, or trade it away for the co-op housing with a momma's boy that Jay has in the box? 30 seconds....."