Originally Posted By: Lola
Do the actual papers provide closure?


IMO no.

As I shared with you I had a LOT of hangover from my M the first time around.

So the closure comes from the healing process you do for YOU.

Moving forward not just moving on.

The memories are just that. Celebrate them.

I was in the town we got married in this weekend and was at the famers market where I bought my W flowers to bring to her room the day of our wedding.

A bittersweet memory for sure.

I don't know I think it's how we react is the key. Once you have the feeling (which you can't control) then try to control what happens after that.

Tell yourself it's a good memory because it was wasn't it?

You just miss it because most likely you won't do it again.

Or

Maybe I'm full of sh!t...

It still hurts. Right?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am