Would not allow the vibe to be part of our ML. Although she did claim that she did use it on her own occasionally. Never while I was there however.
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See, now I just don't get women like this. Sorry, I just don't. But then again, I never bought into the whole sex for procreation thing, or the women's duty thing either. (and FTR, I've only been with H) WTH is wrong with pleasuring yourself??? I'll never get I guess.
Now, I'm one of those mid life women who in a good week with no commitments, sick kids, etc. would love it every day and 2 on Sunday's. Yes, we do exist.
However, I'm also one who if H isn't in the mood has no problem turning to B.O.B. (battery opperated boyfriend for those new to the acronym).
While SillyOldBears suggestion is a good one, you can also use a small bullet vibe while actually ...eh....uh..... "in". If you press it against you, you will both feel it.
The bullets are less intimidating too, since they just vibrate without looking like...........
It does sound like W has a mental block to sex....does she read novels with sex scenes??? Sandra Brown is a good author, not smut novels, but good novels with GREAT love scenes.