I may have mentioned that a couple of weeks ago, my H calls out of the blue and asks me if I want his GI College Benefit Money, which can be transfered to a spouse now. I of course thought, what do you really want. Long story short, it was just a bribe to get me to settle quickly. I was nice, pleasant, told him that at 51 I was a bit old to start a new career, plus I had to support myself. He then went into his rant, canjole, whine about me holding out while he had to make the house payment.
Having mentioned this to our daughter, who has tried several times going to college, but has always had to leave due to pregnancy, Diabetic child, Asthmatic child, husband nearly died in head injury, etc, she has 2 years left. She called her Dad to see if he would be willing to transfer the credits to her. He at first sounded as if he would, knew just how much it amounted to, etc. Said he'd check into it first thing this morning. One hour later, he texted her that, Umm, my lawyer says I shouldn't be giving anything over until your mother reaches a settlement with me. I tried to settle this nicely, but no, your Mom has to involve the lawyers.
This child has always been the closest to him. Has done her best to stay out of the middle and give him a fair chance. He basically just told her to GTH in so many words. He didn't call his lawyer at 9:00 at night. He asked his whore if he could and she said no. He's acting as if it's a bargaining chip with me.
I can take what he dishes out to me. The real pain is the pain I see in his children's eyes. I've read many times on here of the heartless basta$ds that use their kids. Now I know.
