The thing is Sunny there's another state in addition to the usual ones people talk about :

a. Wayward
b. ?
c. Emotional Affair
d. Physical Affair

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Your husband is likley in that state.. I would put QuickSilver's wife in there too

a. Wayward
b. Prowling
c. Emotional Affair
d. Physical Affair

I am just coining this now.. I don't know what else to call it. Cruising? On the make? I dunno...

If your H is on facebook looking up high school "buddies" he's likley prowling...