This is probably one of the hardest things that we will ever have to do...I can't imagine not being able to see one of my kids for that long....just them being gone for a night or two is tough!
You are giving your W the space that she asked for...that is all you can do for her. And, it sounds like you have got some good things planned for yourself...biking and concerts (all very awesome bands btw!) etc.
When my H left, I stripped wallpaper and painted in the master bedroom! It really helped to get my mind off the reminders of him and was something that needed to be done anyway! Maybe you could move some things around or do a little painting? Even rearranging furniture seems to help!!!!
Take care!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
