Shelby, that's horrible and I'm sorry you got served at work. Most will have the decency to have their L's call you in to get served or have your L served on your behalf. But you're not the first and you won't be the last...WAS's are generally very selfish, self-centered and just pissed off at the world.
The feeling of kicked in the stomach does eventually fade to almost nothing but it takes some time, lots of letting go and detaching. Seeing that you registered almost 2 years ago you've been at this for a while. You survived and you'll be OK.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again