Romeo, I have been following this, but no saying anything. Its very obvious you are dealing with someone who is rather spoiled to say the least. If I were you, I would be tough on the divorce negotiations and the possessions. When I got divorced, I gave my XW 1 month to move all her things out, she took her sweet time and didn't get them all out, guess what, she lost what she didn't get. I had it put in the papers. Her personal stuff that she didn't get made great firestarters for me in the fire pit. I also cut communication with her. I realize that you have a daughter, but I would keep the conversation only about her and VERY BRIEF. My reasoning is this, why talk to her? All she wants to do is try to blame you for things, so take her power away. Also, I would take her name off all the bills, including the cell phone, if she wants one, make her get her own.