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Originally Posted By: Barkley
Ugh! Feeling crappy again today....the roller coaster continues


stop buying that "all you can ride ticket" for that roller coaster, seriously if don't like the ride, stop getting on it and get on a better ride ;-)

robx #2041014 07/19/10 07:39 PM
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I know, I know....trying. I could care less about her at this point. I just want it to be over aqnd done with


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Rob - for future reference, what I was going for was something along the lines of: "she doesn't deserve a person as awesome, funny, handsome, and smart as you". Let her go....she will rgret letting you go for the rest of her life. This situation will not impact your kids at all and it will be over very soon".

Thanks


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Hey man,

She doesn't deserve a person as awesome, funny, handsome, and smart as you. Let her go....she will rgret letting you go for the rest of her life. This situation will not impact your kids at all and it will be over very soon.

Or at least we'll be freaking awesome single guys! I appreciate the sarcastic humor. At least enough to tell another dude he's handsome and all that other stuff.

Keep your head up bro.


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
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Hey guys. This is the right way to think. I was/am nervous about the whole starting over thing too, but you know what? Last night I went out for a sandwich and a beer and talked/flirted with a cute blonde bartender that wasn't wearing a wedding ring and it was easy and FUN! I always find myself looking for wedding rings on women now. I never noticed before.

Be strong. Make this fun. Realize how truly pathetic she really is and feel better about yourselves.

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Haha....you guys are great. Keep the positivity going


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Hope your day is better today. There are going to be really up days and really down days, and eventually you'll have more up days than down days, and life will have a new "normal" to it. I understand that reads about as clear as mud, but I think you get my point. ; )

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I seem to have many more up days now!

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How you doing buddy?

Noticed you haven't posted in a few days. Everything ok?


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Not so good.....the divorce proceedings are starting to get ugly. She is alleging all kinds of crazy sh&t and doind some really sneaky stuff with respect to financing


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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
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