Par, there is a realization here that you desparately need to make. You can no longer DB her. You are already divorced. She married another man. No matter what you think of him, he is her husband now. He is probably fighting for her. Of course, she's lying to him about what she's telling you. YOU ARE THE OM in this sitch. This is hard to come to terms with, believe me, I know.
Par: While Blue goes into more depth, this is just what I said on my thread.
The how's and why's of why she is now married to another man need to be left on the curb and taken out with the trash. The only way to move on is to 1) get therapy and 2) let her go.... 100% let her go.
