Well, for whatever reason, I was drawn to 2 men that were basically the same, psychologically. Very similar backgrounds in having their fathers having cheated and left their mothers - same personality type. I'm not saying I am perfect, believe me. I've always been willing to work on my 50% of the marriage though. I do think I'm a bit naive and don't always stand up for myself, which is dangerous with men like this. That's probably a turn off. I'm just very easy-going and I like to make other people happy. I'm fairly confident and out-going though - and others seem to like me. I've never been a nag because my mother was a screeching one! Have a great relationship with each of my 3 kids... Yet, I do feel I must not be doing something right! ???
Edited to add: I don't know why I picked 2 non-religious men to marry when I am a person of faith. Of course, I don't consider myself "religious", but I do have strong faith and beliefs. (Not a knock people over the head with it type.)
