For one thing if the other person is not ready for sex (and lots of it) then it comes across as neediness on OIN's part and could be a turnoff for his W.
"a successful relationship"
Again, this is NOT a successful relationship yet so you can't push the sex yet.
It seems like your answer to everything is lots of sex which is fine as long as the trust and intimacy is there. If not it's going to come off as being needy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.