Hey guys. This is the right way to think. I was/am nervous about the whole starting over thing too, but you know what? Last night I went out for a sandwich and a beer and talked/flirted with a cute blonde bartender that wasn't wearing a wedding ring and it was easy and FUN! I always find myself looking for wedding rings on women now. I never noticed before.
Be strong. Make this fun. Realize how truly pathetic she really is and feel better about yourselves.