Mr Bond,

Its real simple, sex and lots of it is a shortcut to developing physical and emotional intimacy with your partner.

It IS the same method that they use to bond to an affair partner thru a PA, so how am I as a husband wrong for wanting to have this avenue for myself.

I personally believe a successful relationship will have frequent sex and intimacy if thats what they want to do.

If both of them are non-sexual, they will do what they do in that case.