In a way - it's a good thing that I did not schedule something for myself. I suspect that W will bring up my trip out of state this weekend and how unfair it was of me not to give her prompt notice and I can easily reply: "Pot - meet kettle!"

Anyway - it looks like the painters are going to be finished no later than the end of next week. My last action item for that is to stop by the nearby Home Despot and make sure of the off-white color that the painters are using for the interior walls and that will be knocked out tomorrow.

I also received an e-mail update from my L asking if I could update a spreadsheet that W started with items that we are supposed to split the costs (such as the house inspection, garage door, money I have already paid the painters, etc.) As part of the e-mail, my L included the latest e-mail (over a month old) that W sent to her L. W seems really mystified that I have a new bank account which she cannot access for information.

No reason for the mystery - all of our prior bank accounts were joint accounts. Besides - W has had a separate bank account for a year now so I don't see where she has any right to question or complain about it...


Me 52, STBEX 52
D 17, S 12
M 20 years
Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009