Rob - for future reference, what I was going for was something along the lines of: "she doesn't deserve a person as awesome, funny, handsome, and smart as you". Let her go....she will rgret letting you go for the rest of her life. This situation will not impact your kids at all and it will be over very soon".
Thanks
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling