He hasn't been snippy at all when I've been happy. He's been nothing - he's been a robot. Alls he does when he is home is play XBox most of them time, except for his nightly jogs.
I honestly think the only reason it scared him when I called his bluff is because of the kids. He doesn't want to seem like the bad guy here.
I would DEFINITELY not move out! He's the one with the issues, if anyone's going, HE is going!
If he's not willing to work on the marriage, if he wants out of the marriage, then tell him that you both need to sit down with the kids and let them know what's happening and then let them know that he's moving out.
Approach him, let him know that this needs to be done because it's not only fair to you and him but it's the right thing to do with the family so that they know the truth.
