So, as for practicals: Do I initiate this conversation with him or do I wait for him to bring things up? Do I do it right away or give it a few days?
Allen has already told me I need to call him on his bull about facebook friends and talking with other women about our marriage problems... That if he is going to stay in the house then there are to be no more secret conversations with others... I agree on that completely.
If he won't move out but doesn't want to work on the M but is willing to be open and honest, do I still "force" him out??? Hmmm....