Well, we'll see if I can be "sucked back" easily--I too have a hard time remembering things as they really are. I know with THIS person, if I don't have a lot of "detachment" then I will be abused big-time. Ultimately, is this what I want?? To always fight so hard for any measure of respect and love??? I think it's too high of a price to pay for the crumbs he offers.
AGreed! Why is it hard to remember things as they really are? Instead of how they once were, or how we hope they will be,etc?
You are right. I do not want to have to fight for any respect or love. I am done with that. H is responding well for the moment from my pullback, so I highly recommend the same. Remember, Laura, you were there months ago encouraging me to "go dark". IT's taken me a while, but you and everyone else here was right =- I have more peace than I thought possible and look forward to a lot more.
Get your H to move out and see the difference in your peace of mind!!!!!!
