Warrior..you sound so good. I can tell that you want it to work out, just by the way you write.
There are so many marriages that just fall by the wayside these days. My H and I were talking about that the other day. Women used to be "stuck" with her H years ago. There was no birth control, women didn't work and were dependent on their H, no rights really. All that has changed now and women are coming into their own..sometimes that's good..sometimes not. Probably depends on the woman. I do know that divorce is so commonplace anymore that no one thinks anything of it. It's just so easy to throw away your spouse and get a new one. The grass really isn't greener. People have to find that out the hard way, I guess.
I wish your wife knew or at least could listen to someone when they show her about this OM you speak of and what he's done before. Probably not gonna happen tho, huh, since she is in MLC and not listening to a word anyone tells her. My H is such an intelligent, analytical, caring man..I just can't understand why that person can't see what the MLC person is doing.
Anyway, like you say, it is up to us to get our life together and do things that we have always wanted. It's hard, isn't it?
