You will need to confront him for sure... ESPECIALLY about contacting high school friends from facebook.. that is a HUGE EA NO NO...
Facebook is THE NUMBER ONE SOFTWARE PRODUCT in use today to engage in infidelity.. particularly by looking up "old flames" etc
He needs to be warned about the dangers he's getting into here and he needs to respect the boundaries you setup
I would script it out ahead of time...
If you bring up FT again and he says "It wont' work" just say
There is no "IT" in famly therapy. There is just a YOU. Either you are willing to DO the WORK to REPAIR the marriage or you are going to hang out on facebook with old girlfriends and start an affair.. A or B... If its going to be B then you need to pack your things. I will NOT go through this again NOR will I allow you to start an affair in the home of OUR CHILDREN.
You have five minutes to decide... CLock's ticking
