In our email exchange 5-6 weeks ago I told him if he was going to have inappropriate relationships, he should leave. That if he wanted out - he should leave. That if he wanted to go through with getting an apt, he should. He did not do so. 2 days later he asked about MC and had me make him an appt. He went once, won't go back.
I posted the email for someone else awhile back. I'll see if I can find it and post it here.