Ask him a question, "you wouldn't mind if I started dating other men?" and then when he answers "No I don't mind", smile at him, tell him "OK" and then walk away. Then this is your plan.
1. You get a job, gets you out of the house regularly for several hours everyday. 2. You start dressing differently, working out, paying attention to your appearance, looking better, happier, feeling great, 3. Go out regularly with your girlfriends and maybe the occasional "male" friend. Give him what he says he wants, let's see what happens.
Golden!! Great plan!! I give it a couple months before he is crawling back. If u stick to your guns that is.
it's definitely not a bad plan, definitely a 180 from what you're doing, so what would hold you back from doing any of this?
Give me some excuses and I'll give you my response.