I do have a part-time job lined up, I believe, that starts next
month. That won't be much though. I feel legally, he will have to provide enough that I might still be able to go to school, but I'm not sure.

Maybe I should get my ducks in a row before having this kind of conversation with him. ???

D going to college is looking to get a job as well. We don't have a lot of credit card debt but I know a D will cost us plenty... BUT, I know I cannot live like this waiting for the other shoe to drop. Sandi or Pearl - or MIL - someone said how much is it worth? Well, for me - it's worth everything to not live like this. I'm scared for my kids. They will be devastated. They already were when this first started but now think "everything's OK because Dad's still around." He went to counseling 1 time. 1 time! That was it.