Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks NB! those are great suggestions. I especially like the 'will this matter to me in 5 years?' question but I'm always torn between taking the high road and putting my lead foot down ala Gucci, Coach, OldFool etc. It's hard to know when to do what. I end up taking the high road mostly but don't want to come across as weak and a pushover.

I just boggle at the stuff about "that's what I get for getting one on CL".

I think it's a back handed comment and what she's really saying is: "thanks a lot for not giving me my router back and suggesting to buy it on CL- see how you're the source of my problems?"

I gave her my word on paying the 'last' bill so if she's asking I'll keep my word. I'm thinking something like this:

"Sucks about the phone. I'll write you a check for $49.06 for the ATT bill as I'd promised you. I have all the other bills on autopay from my accounts but if they're still showing your name I'm good with you taking your name off as long as they understand not to shut off the services. I need to know what we're doing about the b.day because I have to send out the invitations if we're doing it together. We also need to bring her to the new school for a visit, let me know when's a good time sometime in the second or third week of Aug. Finally, here're a couple of co-parenting counseling/classes available in the area. Let me know which you prefer: ... "