Does your life revolve around him? I hope it doesn't.
Can you continue living a great life even if he doesn't want to be in this kind of a relationship with you? I hope you can.
Do these things, detach yourself from controlling the outcome of this situation, detach yourself from requiring him to be in a relationship with you. Where he lives is of little consequence and you can't control that, all you can control is living a great life for yourself.
