So now we're going back and forth by text as she is now "not sure" about letting me have D Sat am for vacation.
She said "I'm giving up my weekend with D completely. For what" I said" It's a day and a half. She's not a negotiating tool. You'll have her back for the Sunday eve and Monday of the long weekend. I don't see the problem'
PDT- I'm thinkin NOW is the time for the Letting Go text.
Yes, I'm frazzled and emotional...right now.
Sorry, but this is not a good day. And I'm losing patience and it's P'ing me off that she's so calm.
"You know what? I've had a lot of time to think and though I initially supported you in our "crisis", I can see now that that's clearly not what this is anymore. Our marriage, though it needed repair and I completely acknowledge my 50%, is not the reason our family is being torn apart. The affair is the reason and you own that. So, you have made your decision and I have made mine.
I deserve better than this. If you have this little regard or respect for our past 7 years, then I need to move on as quickly as possible."
Or should I just conced the vacation plans hassle; not let it affect my outlook and take D according to the sched?
And keep fanning the flames of exposure?
Sorry, but I'm losing hand and don't know how I did or how to get it back.
