Thanks all. Its uplifting to see some comments here when you're feeling down. Yes - I had say in FL decision - in my thread - given all the circumstances - it made sense. I could've fought it - but it would just have caused more problems for all - in the long run - it is my goal to move down there and be near D11. Lots of things to clean up here in NY - its going to take time.

My D21 and I went to Journey tribute band concert last week, and I've got Marshall Tucker band and Eagles tribute band concerts lined in the next few weeks - so I am getting out as much as I can. My bicycle got a flat - will fix tonite hopefully - that will help. Bike riding a few miles helps me get some fresh air and get out of house.

I will try to get out more - the house for sure is like an albatross - everything in every room reminds me of W or D11 in some way - so its like torture sometimes.

I am making plans to visit D11 and W in FL first week in Aug for a long weekend, and that thought does make me feel better.

Thanks for the advice - i know what to do - its just hard to do it... hanging tuff........


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010