How To Tell The Kids

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DanF,

It would be a good way to keep your focus on the trip and the kids if you do it this time by yourself. W may find out what she will be missing not being there. I believe you can handle it. It would be tough, but it would be a real challenge to go it alone for you too. If you do it alone W could see that your are doing it for you now.

Just my perspective. Your decision of course.

You are doing better, and I am very glad because it is very difficult on you and the kids. Don't lose sight of them in this situation.