Pearl beat me to it. Definitely, time to go "Robx/Gucci" on his sorry ass.
Puppy
Well, I told him 5-6 weeks ago that he was free to leave. It was somewhat of the Dobson speech in email form... He chose not to leave. He said he wanted to go to counseling. Therefore, I thought we were working on the R and that's why I feel so betrayed by his saying last night that he didn't see it working out....
SO, now, how do I set him free AGAIN? I had already told him that love has to be free - that if he wanted a D that it obviously wasn't what I wanted for our family but that I had no choice but to let him go. He also mentioned separating and "dating" which I said I would not be in an open marriage...
Here he sits - at home - yet I "set him free" but there is no improvement in things and he's only here because of logistics???
