Hi SunnyD - what do YOU want to do? I am new here. My H has had an atty contact me but has not yet filed. I believe he is having an EA via phone which he has not admitted.
I did not read your other thread, but the biggest thing I picked up on is that you don't sound like you know what YOU want. I think that's where you need to start.
I would have said a lot of the things you did - in the past. Now, I'm walking the border of DB/LRT.
I want to save my marriage. 20 years and 3 kids is a lot to fight for. Do I want to be treated like some roommate in my own home??? No, of course not. I don't think I can do that long-term.
