SO I joined her. We had conversations and at one point I said ILY to W and W said in response "I hope so. ILY2 but it is hard for me to show it"
OIN,
I have read your thread, and I am glad that there has been some progress in your sitch. I believe that this is where the conversation should have ended that night. It seems that your W is overwhelmed by your situation. Try take cues like "it is hard for me to show it." She seemed to be having stress at that point.
Look for the times that W is ready to end the conversation. Just say "I know." Leave it at that.
I am happy for you and the good signs that are occurring for you and your W.
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