Some similarities to the last separation, yes but I dont think at least for now a PA, she has let her self go physically. Depression is the what I believe, she has not shaved her legs in a while so she can get them waxed, she is not getting all dressed up, no makeup and not really making herself presentable if their is a OM. Again, I am not totally ruling it out, just my own gut feeling. If she is taling to someone, then she can go with it. It hurts but I am at the point where she will do what she does, cant control it, so be it.
